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Marriage Rules/Wedding Rings

Marriage Rules©


By Dr. Larry B. Gelman


“Push-pull”, “push-pull”                                             

                                       Closer-farther, “push-pull”

Open-shut, faster-slower

                                         Stop-go, walk-run

Laugh-cry, move on by

                                    "Push-pull”, “push-pull”. 


Loving-hating, wanting-fearing

                                                  Stroking-hurting, sanity-madness

Win-lose, honesty-fraud

                                       Games-truth, “push-pull”.


Hear the bell, heaven or hell

                                               Dying-living, breathing-choking

Eating-fasting, “push-pull”.

                                            Come to me, go away

Caring-scaring, wanting-fearing

                                                   Sanity-madness, “push-pull”.


Conflict-peace, clarity-fog

                                          Confess-conceal, pretend-be real

Gasping-grasping, masking-asking

                                                        Knowing-denying, showing-hiding

Loving-loving, “push-pull”.


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